In effect, I am challenging your premise. I believe that this is logically self-evident, practically a tautology... But it is the foundational fact that leads my fundamental beliefs about how to act and how to expect others to act.
—————There is no logical basis for any person to claim that she gets to be the only person out of six billion who gets to force other people do what she wants even while still being free from anybody else forcing her to do what they want.
Crazy Craig: I don't want to do it.
Sane Sam: OK. I won't force you to.
Crazy Craig: I want you to force me to do it.
Sane Sam: You mean you really do want to do it but can't bring yourself to do it without someone to providing additional motivation to get you to do it?
Crazy Craig: No. I really don't want to do it. This is not the sort of situation where I really do want to do it but can't bring myself to do it on my own.
Sane Sam: Well, if you really don't want to do it then I won't force you to.
Crazy Craig: No! I don't want to do it AND I want you to force me to do it.
Sane Sam: That's crazy.
Crazy Craig: Exactly.
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—————The only sane conclusion to me seems to be that no one, not even me, should be allowed to initiate force against anyone else. (Of course, there's nothing wrong with defending yourself or others from being forced to do things we don't want to do.)
Meglomanical Meg: I don't want you to force me to do things I don't want to do.
Sane Sarah: The same is true for me. I suggest that we agree that I won't try to force you to do things you don't want to do and you won't try to force me to do things I don't want to do.
Meglomanical Meg: No. I want to be able to force you to do things you don't want do, but I don't want you to be able to do the same to me.
Sane Sarah: So you'd be my master and I'd be your slave?
Meglomanical Meg: Yes. I believe that it is possible to live in a world where others can't force me to do things I don't want to do while I get to force them to do things I want to do.
Sane Sarah: Only a meglomaniac would expect a world where they are the master and everyone else is their slave.
Meglomanical Meg: Exactly.
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Call it "libertarianism" or "the golden rule", but to me it is just the way things are.
I happen to like the incidental consequences as well. Without the initiation of force there would be no murder, rape, kidnapping, mugging, etc.